Just Because You Can, Doesn’t Mean You Should: Discernment in the Music Industry
Welcome to the very first episode of Tub Talk! I am so excited to kick off this series designed specifically for music industry professionals who are navigating the grind and looking for a higher perspective.
In an industry that often feels like it’s built on a foundation of temptation, it can be incredibly difficult to find your footing. Whether you are a longtime believer or someone just curious about a better way to live, there is a way to lead a life that is both successful and spirit-led.
The Corinthian Challenge
Today’s message is titled: Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.
To dive into this, we’re looking at 1 Corinthians 10:23-24. In this letter, the Apostle Paul was writing to a church in Greece that was struggling with some pretty wild behavior—people were losing their way and acting on every impulse. Paul’s advice was simple yet profound:
"You say I’m allowed to do anything, but not everything is good for you. You say I’m allowed to do anything, but not everything is beneficial. Don’t be concerned for your own good, but for the good of others."
Leading by Example in the Studio and on Stage
The music industry often tells us that we have to be in certain rooms or participate in certain activities, like drugs, drinking, or partying, just to feel included or to get a deal done.
That is a lie. I’ve been there. I’ve done the drugs and the partying, and I can tell you from experience: it never filled me. In fact, I felt more alone than ever.
True leadership isn't about giving people advice; it’s about leading by example. When you choose to stay sober, make wise decisions, and remain spirit-led, you become a light in those rooms. You don't have to be religious to recognize that living with integrity and purity (much like Jesus did) actually works for the good of everyone around you.
Reflection: Audit Your Circle
If someone is telling you that you must compromise your morals to be successful, it might be time to find a new manager, a new group, or a new company.
Ask yourself:
What doors have I opened recently that weren't wise?
Am I making decisions based on ego or business moves, or am I praying about them first?
How can I discern God’s "yes" versus a distraction?
Maybe a distraction is a TV show keeping you from finishing that track in your voice memos, or maybe it’s a lifestyle choice keeping you from your true calling. Remember, if you don't do what is best for your own spirit, you can't do what is best for the people you are meant to lead.
Final Thoughts
Just because you have the freedom to do anything doesn't mean those choices are benefiting your career or your calling. You can be a leader without partaking, and that integrity will carry your message further than anything else on the planet.
Take some time this week to go over these reflection questions and get honest with yourself.
